“Dirty Talks,” I know, many girls are shy to discuss this topic. Regardless of how you think about dirty talks, but it is the undeniable fact that most men LOVE a woman who knows how to dirty talk to them.
Having an understanding of how to talk dirty to a man will give you an absolute advantage in any relationship. In this article, you’ll understand the reasons why men love dirty talking and how to get started using it now.
If you ever wondered why men love dirty talk so much? Or If you ever have been asked to talk dirty but don’t known what to say? Even If you have ever done it wrong and felt embarrassed about it?
Don’t worry; you are not alone. Many women don’t really know the importance of dirty talking to their man and how to use it. Due to culture and education, most women feel shameful or shy to discuss sex; hence naturally, they feel embarrassed to enjoy sex.
If you ever thought in such a way, you should let go of this wrong perception. We were created to enjoy life, and sex is part of our life. And it’s everyone’s divine right to enjoy it.
So in this article. You’ll discover the five top reasons why talking dirty drives men so wild? And how can you get started using it?
Why Men Love Dirty Talking?
1. He wants a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets
It drives men crazy when women display her ladylike persona in public, but express herself with sexy dirty talks in bed will bring men lots of exciting thrills and sparks men’s fantasy.
He knows that he is the only one who gets to see your naughty side, seeing a lady transforms into a dirty little vixen for his eyes only will make everything much more arousing for him.
He feels like he’s the one who inspires your uninhibited side, and that’s intoxicating to his ego.
2. He is rocking your world
When you’re letting loose a string and moans, screams, and a variety of sexy play-by-play dirty tricks, you’re showing him just how much you LOVE what he’s doing to you.
It tells him that he’s rocking your world that will make him more excited and he loves this.
They’re hard-wired to please us sexually. And this goes back to the caveman days.
In modern life, there’s so much communication going on and mixed signals that it can get him to feel uncertain if he is doing his job well to satisfy you.
Dirty talking will help to send a clear signal and acknowledge the excellent job your man’s doing.
3. He can’t resist your confidence
A woman who knows how to use dirty talk shows how confident she is, and man can’t resist being drawn to a woman who has the confidence to express herself sexually.
It becomes more enjoyable and exciting for the man as he doesn’t have to play guessing games, as he knows what exactly you want from your dirty little talks.
4. Enthusiasm Turns Him On
Men love to be seduced by their women; this is one of the essential aspects every man wants in a relationship. When you are talking dirty with him, it is not only letting him know your presence and experience but also acknowledge and praise him for what he’s doing.
It spices up the enthusiasm; you make him clear that you are enjoying that will turn him on entirely and make him feel the whole experience is super awesome.
Don’t let your partner misunderstood by being quiet or sending out misleading signals; start using dirty talks.
5. It’s encouraging
It is related to the above reasons too when you are using dirty talks. Your man will take it as a sign of approval of what he’s doing is working, and it encourages your man to push the boundaries.
It will take ordinary lovemaking to the next new level that will bring greater pleasure for both of you.
The above five reasons show why men LOVE a woman to talk more in bed in general and use explicit languages.
Dirty talks are compelling, especially when you know how to use them correctly and effectively; you can make a guy Sexually OBSESSED with you without even touching him!
Well, I know you may not feel comfortable engaging yourself with dirty talks at first, but don’t worry, you are NOT alone.
Let’s get real here; you seriously don’t have to be shame or shy and avoid using dirty talks, as it is human nature to enjoy the greater pleasure of your sex life.
If you ever tried and failed, don’t let your fear stop you from getting the passions and excitement from your sex life.
Also importantly, don’t mistake that you are doing this only to PLEASE your man! No, no, you are doing yourself a favor too, as you will enjoy the pleasure also.
How To Do Dirty Talks
Let me show you the three easy ways to start talking dirty. They are not as difficult as you thought.
1. Start with a Text
Here’s an easy one that you can build up your confidence with it. “I can’t stop thinking about…” Followed by something like… “you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now.” These help you get your point across without being totally explicit. It’s a great place to start.
2. Give him a naughty Play-By-Play
When you’re having sex, describe aloud how much you enjoy what he’s doing. Tell him how good you feel. Tell him that you don’t want him to stop. Give him directions on what to do next.
3. Take a deep breath and let it fly!
Try getting into a character…
What would the naughty vixen side of you say to him?
Get into that role and don’t censor whatever sexy words come out of your mouth!
If you want your man to be 100% focused on you, fantasizing about you during the day and counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again…
You don’t have to kill yourself at the gym. You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s nothing wrong with doing that if you want.)
If you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally addicted to you, all you have to do is learn to TALK DIRTY and make love to his mind.
As I mentioned earlier, acquiring this skill of dirty talk is not only to please your man but also to create an opportunity for you to enjoy the pleasure with the man you love.
Kay is in her 50′s, is divorced with grown sons, and has been back in the dating game for 5 years. She’s met a surprising assortment of men from online dating sites, many of whom were very nice but just not right for her. Some remain friends. She now refuses to meet anyone at Starbucks